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BDSM Problem #299

coldbitterness:

zincfingers:

neutered:

bdsmproblems:

Learning about domestic violence in a child and family development class. Professor uses terms like “dominance”, “humiliation”, “power and control”, and “sadism” with a negative, vanilla connotation. Can’t help but get turned in while the rest of the class gasps in horror.

no this is not a bdsm problem this is a “you are a fucked up person who can’t distinguish fantasy from reality and should be ashamed” problem

AAH JESUS OP GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS FOR FIVE SECONDS

ARE YOU SERIOUSLY INCAPABLE OF THINKING ABOUT SERIOUS ISSUES IN A WAY THAT DOES NOT INVOLVE TWISTING THEM INTO YOUR JERKOFF MATERIAL

IF SO, WHY ARE YOU IN A CHILD AND FAMILY DEVELOPMENT CLASS

So I thought the OP was like, as shitty as it could get

And then in the notes I saw: “A really usual feeling. Had this with nearly all rape scenes and Nazi themes.”

YES HOW DARE PEOPLE ACT LIKE RAPE AND NAZIS ARE UNIFORMLY BAD, AS WELL AS HUMILIATION AND ABUSE

Hate hate hate hate

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    Jesus christ, this is the most selfish thin. Using the abuse of little children as something to get you off, and then...
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  8. soultired reblogged this from m1ssw0rld and added:
    But the whole point of BDSM is doing stuff that would be considered abuse or at least assault if it wasn’t consensual....
  9. m1ssw0rld reblogged this from bestiesnotestes and added:
    what.the fuck. omg.
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  13. turningonthelatheofheaven reblogged this from bestiesnotestes and added:
    should pull their heads out of their asses.
  14. loryisunabletosupinate reblogged this from rottenmeats
  15. viomatic reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth
  16. here4radfems reblogged this from bestiesnotestes and added:
    people say they can leave bdsm in the bedroom and it never fucks up their minds or reactions to other shit but if you’re...
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  18. altonym reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth and added:
    ugh if you needed any more reason to kinkshame jesus
  19. jcbpaisley reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth and added:
    wowwwwwwwwwww “negative, vanilla connotation” holy shit
  20. wretchedoftheearth reblogged this from bdsmproblems and added:
    okay this is really gross that’s not even within...BDSM or kink context. it’s fucking...
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  23. thekittymeows reblogged this from bdsmproblems and added:
    Yes!! This happened to me when I was younger when I was watching Maurys controlling husbands. Luckily I know I was BDSM...
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  25. voyeurist-at-heart reblogged this from bdsmproblems and added:
    I don’t get turned on, I get upset. This is part of what makes it so damn hard for me to just accept that I like what I...
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  3. mellostopheles reblogged this from sazquatch
  4. sazquatch reblogged this from socialjusticemagicalgirl and added:
    Jesus christ, this is the most selfish thin. Using the abuse of little children as something to get you off, and then...
  5. socialjusticemagicalgirl reblogged this from callingoutkinksters
  6. talesdetalon reblogged this from bdsmproblems
  7. genderneutraldude reblogged this from tealrallythong
  8. soultired reblogged this from m1ssw0rld and added:
    But the whole point of BDSM is doing stuff that would be considered abuse or at least assault if it wasn’t consensual....
  9. m1ssw0rld reblogged this from bestiesnotestes and added:
    what.the fuck. omg.
  10. uvgotfemale reblogged this from turningonthelatheofheaven
  11. shannonwest reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth
  12. genderagnostic reblogged this from turningonthelatheofheaven
  13. turningonthelatheofheaven reblogged this from bestiesnotestes and added:
    should pull their heads out of their asses.
  14. loryisunabletosupinate reblogged this from rottenmeats
  15. viomatic reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth
  16. here4radfems reblogged this from bestiesnotestes and added:
    people say they can leave bdsm in the bedroom and it never fucks up their minds or reactions to other shit but if you’re...
  17. bestiesnotestes reblogged this from jcbpaisley
  18. altonym reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth and added:
    ugh if you needed any more reason to kinkshame jesus
  19. jcbpaisley reblogged this from wretchedoftheearth and added:
    wowwwwwwwwwww “negative, vanilla connotation” holy shit
  20. wretchedoftheearth reblogged this from bdsmproblems and added:
    okay this is really gross that’s not even within...BDSM or kink context. it’s fucking...
  21. dragonzardman reblogged this from bdsmproblems
  22. poe-trollin-like-a-baws reblogged this from bdsmproblems
  23. thekittymeows reblogged this from bdsmproblems and added:
    Yes!! This happened to me when I was younger when I was watching Maurys controlling husbands. Luckily I know I was BDSM...
  24. alien-cats reblogged this from bdsmproblems
  25. voyeurist-at-heart reblogged this from bdsmproblems and added:
    I don’t get turned on, I get upset. This is part of what makes it so damn hard for me to just accept that I like what I...